I don't know, isn't this a bit strange to have this specifically a site about cheating? So you use another web site to find your live match and then 7 years later you go out and find someone to cheat on?
Maybe you don't want to use the same dating site you found your current partner on in case they are doing the same? Wow wouldn't that be strange if you ended up hooking up with the same person again? Good or bad?
I'm too confused.
If you are in the UK and want to cheat then lovinglinks seems to be the same thing -- though they are a bit more direct and say they are "adult dating".
So check out philanderers and do let me know in the forum if you have anything to tell me about it.